Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Selfless Deed

I was watching Friends the other day, and for once in the history of the show, Joey had actually said something that in a way makes perfect sense. A brilliant theory might I add. 

"There's no such thing as a selfless deed..."

It's true. I always thought that whilst performing a good deed, you might dub yourself as a selfless person for taking up the time, resources, and energy in helping others when in reality it doesn't hold any benefit to you whatsoever. That your acts come from the kindness of your heart. However, I would like to add that I agree with Joey when he says that there's no such thing as a selfless deed. Think about it, whatever you do, you'll always get something in return. Be it material incentives or non-material incentives. For example, my sister might ask me to help her with her report, I'd do it in a heartbeat but in return, she'll help me with my report. The same thing goes to non-material incentives which are mostly psychological incentives in which for example, I might help a complete stranger in something and yes I won't get anything in return, but I will have a sense of satisfaction and I would feel good on the inside because my supposedly "selfless" deeds, so in the end I got something. I felt good about it in the end so I gained something from my deed. 

I know it might be confusing and the way I'm explaining might not be so clear, but do you get where I'm going with this? I never thought about it this way, and when I first heard it I thought it would be interesting to share. 

P.S Decided to stick to original template.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

1st

Anony said...

:@

desert palms said...

How about helping another to your own detriment?

Could that be considered as selfless?

(p.s. I seriously cracked up at reading -" i agree with Joey". Youre so cute!! =* )

Bahrain Fashion said...

Yup! I agree with Joey.. and I love that episode XD

serenade said...

selfless people do selfless deeds, they're rare, but they do exist,,,

and i admit,, i am not one of them :$

Aurous said...

I agree with you and joey :)

there is no selfless deed.. whatever we do, we do it to feel good or to avoid feeling bad! and I really don't think there are any exceptions :D

Standy said...

hmm, never thougth if it before but its true!!
there is no such thing as selfless deed, you will always get something in return!!

Alya said...

First, yes it makes sense. The least you can get from any good deed is satisfaction or feeling good about yourself.

Second, I like this template more :)

c'est la vie said...

You know i once heared a shiekh saying it in a lecture that any good deede you do ,your doinh it for your self ,cause you will get rewarded from God and you will feel good So i get what you mean